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Toys Delivered

Sorry, this is late but......

The toys were delivered.  Below is a photo of us delivering the toys at St. Louis Childrens Hospital in early December.  We were AMAZED at the amount of toys we collected.  Toys came from as far away as Ohio, and even Kade's school got involved and collect a huge amount of toys.

Thank you to all who donated, til next year.


Toys Part II

Last year about this time we held the first annual toy drive for St. Louis Childrens Hospital.  We started the toy drive last year to "repay" Childrens for the toys that Kade received during a stay over Christmas two years ago.  Last year we collected over 8 50 gallon bags full of toys.  Go here to read more about our first ever toy drive.

Right now we are collecting for round two of the toy drive.  We are off to a good start, and are in the process of filling the floor in Kade's room with toys.  We would love to collect more toys than last year, and we might just do that.

If you feel compelled to donate please contact me via email (josh [at] ourfamilyof4.com) and we can make arrangements to dropoff/pickup the toys.  Like we said last year the toys need to be new, and unwrapped.  We are not asking for $50 xbox games, something as simple as a deck of playing cards or a board game will do the trick.

Leaving Holland

Written as a continuation of "Welcome to Holland" by Emily Perl Kingsley.  My point of view as a parent mourning the loss of a child with special needs.  This won't make sense you have not read the above "Welcome to Holland"

So, you were expecting a trip to Italy and got re-routed to Holland.  It seemed to take a while but you became accustom to Holland, it's terms, technology, and expectations.  Some would even say that you have become an advocate for trips to Holland, an ambassador if you will.  You started making plans and expectations for your future in Holland.  You could even say you are excited for what the future holds for your stay.

You awake one morning to realize that your trip to Holland has come to an unexpected end.  You have come to LOVE Holland, and now you are being told to leave?  You had plans, things left to do and see, but you have to leave.  You have made friends, contacts, and started Welcoming Committees for new comers, but it is time to leave.

You leave Holland with wonderful memories of the tulips, the first windmill you saw, the beautiful Rembrants you got to see, and who could forget the wooden shoes.  You will take with you amazing memories of your stay in Holland, although unplanned and unexpected, it was an AMAZING trip.  You have made equally amazing friends, that will remain friends long after you trip is over.  You will continue to be an advocate for Holland, knowing that a stay there will forever change your life.  You will continue to support others making an unexpected trip to Holland, assuring them that they too, will have a trip of a lifetime.

However long or short your stay, you will realize that you are so very thankful for the unexpected turn of events that lead you to Holland.  You leave, hoping that you help make Holland a better place than when you arrived.  Then you realize, you might be leaving Holland, but Holland will, for the rest of your life, be apart of you.

In loving memory of Kade M. Bauman 02/07/08 - 10/14/2011


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Kade's Eulogy


Dear family and friends,

When God gives you a child, you have no idea what the future holds, and you immediately start making plans and aspirations for your baby.  You can make all the plans you want, but God has his plan too, and no matter how bumpy or smooth the path, it is the Perfect Plan.

It is no secret that Kade’s path was full of obstacles, but he had his share of smooth patches too.  God knew Kade’s path when He made Kade, and it was Perfect.  Sure Kade spent more than his fair share of time in the hospital.  Sure, Kade lost countless moments to seizures.  Sure, Kade never verbally spoke, walked or even sat on his own.  But what made his journey perfect is what he taught us, and who he brought into our life.

The day kade started having seizures he brought some VERY special people into our life.  Nurse Tina Klassing was one of the first nurses on the 12th floor to take care of Kade.  God put her in Kade’s room as part of His perfect Plan.  Tina was not only Kade’s nurse, she turned into our counsler, playmate for Kade, she setup a play date for Jackson, and most importantly became a great friend.  Another very special person God and Kade put in our life that day was Dr. P, one of the world’s best neurologists.  Dr P did not consider Kade just another kid with seizures.  He took time to get to know us as a family.  He stayed in Kade’s room until ALL of our questions were answered.  Unfortunately he moved to Seattle to work on ground breaking DNA research but to this day still holds Kade in his heart, and on the top of his research list.

The next group of people God and Kade brought into our life were our GREAT Therapists and support people from First Steps.  These ladies came into our home, and worked with Kade, hours on end, to teach his muscles what to do.  Almost every night of the week, we had at least one of these wonderful women in our home.  I dont know where we would be with out Shelly, Krista, Pam, Brandellen, and Jo.

Some of our most cherished memories with Kade are the amazing Make-a-Wish trip we took to Disney World.  We had a wonderful time visiting the characters and Kade had a one on one meeting with Barney!  The best part about it, we were there together as a family, grand parents included!  Thank you Make-a-Wish!

Kade transitioned from First Steps to the Early Childhood Special Education system when he turned 3.  We were introduced to more amazing people including new therapists and a wonderful teacher, Melanie.  Immediately Melanie became an advocate for Kade and put a thermometer on his wheelchair so the bus driver would know if Kade was getting to hot.  

Kade’s life wasn’t about what he couldn’t do, it was about showing others what THEY can do.  He taught us so many things.  He showed us that we had more patience than we could ever imagine, more love than we thought possible, and how to fight for those without a voice.  He opened doors, made friends, showed others how to love, all with a goofy Elvis smile on his face.

Kade has a very special relationships with both sets of Grand Parents.  They were extra sets of parents for Kade.  Without them, things would have been so very different.  He loved all of them SOOOOOOO VERY MUCH.  Kade loved his big brother too.  Jackson went out of his way to make sure Kade was involved in everything he could be, even as a special guest in his classroom.  Jackson is the best big brother and Kade loves him for that.  God put another very special Jackson in his life.  One day while at Vision Therapy Kade got to meet a little boy, named Jackson.  They never said a word to each other, but they were the best of friends, and as God’s plan unfolded, were classmates.  

Dr P told me one day that he ran more tests on Kade in 2 weeks than he typically runs on kids over a two year period.  What Dr P didn’t know is that Kade would do more in 3 years 8 months and 7 days than most adults do in a lifetime.

I did not come close to painting an accurate picture of the life Kade had or the lives he touched, but it gives you an idea.  I know, too, that I did not come close to mentioning everyone that helped us and Kade along the way.  Please know that we hold a very special place in our hearts for EVERYONE that has helped Kade or even took a moment to say hello.

When God came to Kade’s room Thursday night and took him home, the very first thing he did was opened his eyes nice and wide, stood up, kicked his wheelchair to the curb, and RAN around to meet all of the family and friends that were waiting for him.  God’s plan was perfect!

Kade, we love you, we miss you, and you will forever be in our hearts.  

Until we meet again.

Thank you
Josh and Annette

Wings not Wheels

It is with a heavy heart that I write this. God called Kade home last night. Kade passed away peacefully in his sleep. We can only assume it was due to a seizure. Arrangements are as follows : Visitation Sunday Oct 16 4pm Church of Our Lady, Festus MO Funeral Mass Monday Oct 17 9:30am Church of Our Lady Festus, MO Donations may be made to Make-a-Wish of St. Louis or Variety Children's Charity St. Louis.

Radio show Update

So we have had two radio show, and surprisingly the went really well.  Below are the audio players for each of the shows we have had so far.  If you want to listen live, or even call in, our show next show will be Oct 6th at 7pm CST at www.blogtalkradio.com/familynetworkradio


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Walmart - All talk no action?

Almost two months ago I posted a photo a friend of mine sent me a photo from a Walmart in Nixa, MO.  She was upset that they had placed Special Olympics tshirts in the off color humor shirt section.  I explained in my post that it was disrespectful to Special Olympics that Walmart placed their shirts in that section.  After that post I actually got a comment on this website from the Senior Manager of Walmart Media Relations, Dianna Gee stating that Walmart understood how the placement was disrespectful and Walmart was going to instruct their stores to find a better place for those shirts.  She went on to explain that Walmart is a big supporter of Special Olympics and the proceeds of those shirts go directly to Walmart.  I was very happy that Walmart responded, took note, and was going to take action.

However this morning I got a call from Annette, and she said she was at Walmart in Festus, MO and the Special Olympics shirts were back in the off color humor section.  I asked her to send me a photo and she sent me this....


What says "We support Special Olympics" more than placing their shirts next to "Your face.....3 millions dislikes", or "For a minute there you bored me to death", or The Grim Reaper, oh I know, Bob Marley says "I support Special Olympics and I wanna jam it wid you".

I guess I should have asked WHEN Walmart was going to communicate with their store managers to move the shirts.

See my original post here
See Walmart's original response here

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